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A friend came to visit. She brought flowers and a card. Inside the card, she wrote that I was an amazing friend. To her, at least. It is normal to question yourself on the quality of your friendship and whether or not  you are a good friend to other people, are you doing enough to engage, support, celebrate others when they go through major transition? How much more can you do while racing through life, its responsibilities and distractions? A good tool to use for reflection is the theory of attachment to understand yourself and how your type of attachement impact on the quality of relationships. Have a look and let me know what you think?

Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world. Today i am wise, so I am changing myself. Jalal ad-din Rumi * Is reaching grand achievements seems futile when in the process you feel tired, burnt out, absolutely dissatisfied with some aspects of your life? What about feeling joy every steps of the way. * It is while making art, focusing on the process as opposed to the end outputs that people feel the most bliss and joy. It is through this process that they moved from cleverness to wisdom as they realised that their only purpose is joy. As internal desires are attuned to joy, the external world just transform itself as we welcomed with open arms change.