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Cluttered House - What are you choosing to ignore?

Your house is currently cluttered and messy.
From your perspective, clearing it out is far from being your current priority as it stands, you are too busy taking over the world.
Yet, the people around you are starting to feel the brunt of your lack of presence in space and time.
You do not even notice the mess around you because you only think about what needs to get done in other aspects of your life.
How can you possibly rectify that so people around you can focus on supporting you in your scheme as opposed to the mess that they can see around you?
It appears your level of tolerance is far higher than them.
You just feel things are going to get together eventually or maybe you are in denial, who knows.
You may be choosing to ignore critical issues to protect yourself.
And so, here is the question to answer
- What are you choosing to ignore? list 20 things

Once you have answered those questions, rank them in order of importance. Pick the 3 top one and focus on resolving it!

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