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Hard Choices - Ruth Chang

Could this talk possibly literally change your life? Have you asked yourself questions such as: Which career should I pursue? Should I break up — or get married?! Where should I live? Did you have to make big decisions? Have they been agonizingly difficult take? If yes, you were probably thinking about them in the wrong way according to philosopher Ruth Chang. Her framework will most probably help you to shape who you truly are. To watch the video > click here 

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