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Cinderella is my favourite Disney Princess Movie of all time.  Why? Despite the trauma of losing both her parents at a young age and being abused by both her stepmother and stepsisters, she remains kind, compassionate and strong completing all her chores with a positive spirit. She finds refuge in fantasy and by dreaming of a better life, she takes great care of those around her who return her favours. She is not even looking for the Prince Charming or for someone to save her, she is waiting for all her dreams to become reality. At the time when she almost lost all hopes after her stepsisters viciously attack her, she materialises a fantasy - the fairy godmother - who washes her tears and make her dream come true: to go to the ball and have a magical experience. At the ball, the prince finds her meandering in the hall and approach her for a dance.  The dance with the Prince gives her an opportunity to dream furthermore about a complete different life made of love and delight....

I am glad we postponed the idea of having a child. I was able to work, study and expand my mind with many different thoughts and thinking, nourish my soul with many different perspectives, engage with many different activities and go through an healing process that will benefit generations. I am now able to have deep conversation with people and this is not limited to nappies, boobs and poops, and the trauma that goes with it.  I am now in the process of bringing my children into this world and oh they are going to be some healthy magical beings who will transform our lives and this world for the better.