Sorrow Cycle - Love is here to stay

If you find yourself going through another cycle of sorrow and grieving, there is a song that may help you.
''Love is here to stay'', the music was written by George Gershwin with lyrics by Ira Gershwin.
Ira Gershwin wrote the words after George's death as a tribute to his brother’s passing.
The song resonates with me as I find myself missing a person I love dearly. It puts forward that whatever changes, love is here to stay. The memory of love received, the love that still remains that you receive each day, the love that you give, the love that you feel, the love that is still there to welcome within your life. It will always be there regardless of the earthquake, tsunamis, illnesses and sadness.
No point closing yourself from it by fear of losing it again, embrace it and live fully.

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